Question: Why Are Breeders and Rescues So Picky About Who Their Dogs Go To?
"We're trying to add a dog to our family, but we keep running into this phrase 'We'll only sell/adopt to these types of homes ...' Why do breeders and rescuers do this? Isn't it better to that these dogs have homes, any homes, willing to take them in?"
Answer: There is a very important thing to remember when you are looking at buying a purebred dog, or adopting a dog from a rescue: the people placing the dog are more interested in the needs of the dog than your sensibilities, and everything they do is done to protect the breed. It's neither a matter of money, nor a matter of a home at any cost.
"Fenced yard required."
For most rescues and breeders, this requirement is an attempt to prevent the careless negligence of leaving a dog tied up in the yard. I don't necessarily agree with it, since a dog can be just as neglected in a fenced-in yard, but a fence has far fewer inherent dangers than a chain does. A dog is unlikely to strangle himself with a fence, and a fenced enclosure at least provides a greater degree of freedom and activity.
"Written permission from the landlord/homeowner."
This should be a standard on every single adoption or purchase agreement. You can not adopt or buy a dog if you can not prove that you are allowed to keep him. This clause may also cover breed bans in your area, and potential housemates' agreements.
"Veterinary references required."
Generally, this is only asked for as references if you have other pets, but you may be required to provide the name and number of the veterinarian you plan to use, since it is expected that your new dog will be given a check-up within the first two or three days of acquisition. Often breeders and rescue organizations will also ask for personal references, from friends and family, so they may assess how you are viewed as a potential dog owner.
"No children under this age."
This is a big one, and it's usually the deal breaker. It's not an arbitrary rule, even if it may seem like it. In the case of rescued dogs, it's impossible to know everything about their history, and with the unknown can come danger. Dogs are assessed for their temperament before being adopted out, but unfortunately, there is no way to be completely sure.
Breeders often use age restrictions based on their breed's individual needs, physical characteristics, or standard temperament. It is a fact, that some breeds are not suited for small children. Very small dogs can be injured easily by a toddler showing affection, and very large dogs can knock a small child over with their tails. Other dog breeds are less tolerant of children in general, and many parents aren't as careful with their progeny as they should be, and accidents happen. Children need to be taught how to behave around animals, and it's a skill that many parents don't bother with. A breeder will likely not be willing to take the risk with a dog they have taken the time, money, and care to breed.
Breeders and rescue and shelter workers are only looking out for the best interests of the dog, and are often willing to work with a potential home on many fronts. Don't be discouraged, just keep trying to be the best owner you can be. Not every rule is hard and fast, and most people are willing to bend if given enough incentive.
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