It's a lesson we all learn eventually, and one your dog should learn, too. Nothing In Life is Free (NILF) is a dog training technique that teaches dogs self-control by having them work for everything they get. Basically, if your dog wants attention, food, a walk or another type of reward, she needs to do something for you first. Does your dog try to bolt ahead of you and out the door in anticipation of a walk? Will she practically knock someone over trying to get to food? Here's my favorite: pushing her head or body under your hand to get petted. My own dog is a pro at this one!
Why does it matter? Well, the more you let your dog push the boundaries, the more unruly she can become. A dog with self-control is well-behaved and more fun to be around. Your guests may not appreciate how wonderful your dog is when she is constantly pawing and licking at them for attention. Small children and other animals can be injured by a dog rushing to get to what she wants. NILF is not about becoming a dictator over your dog. It's all about positive reinforcement and guiding your dog to self-control. A patient dog is happier because she's not getting herself all worked up over something she wants. Instead, she knows what she has to do in order to get it.
Learn all about the NILF technique and how it might work for you and your dog. You may be surprised how teaching your dog self-control makes a difference. Have you used NILF with your own dog? Tell us how it worked for you.
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This sounds like an easy system to implement and is with many dogs. However, if your dog has issues with self-control or reactivity, it can lead to frustration and more reactions.
There is also an event called “extinction burst.” This occurs when the rewards that have always been present is reduced or cut off. There will be a sudden much higher level of the behavior before it begins to fade out.
If you run into problems implementing this, call a professional trainer for help.